I coach people who want to be themselves and follow unconventional paths. People who like being successful with their work & want meaningful relationships. People who are creative and passionate.

It's time!

  • Is there a co-worker that makes your life miserable?
  • You are successful at your job, yet your love life could use an upgrade?
  • You love your parents, as long as you don’t talk to them?

It’s time to let go & evolve.
I offer individual coaching sessions by Skype or Telephone. How? How long? How much? All the answers are here.

You don’t need to be fixed, you are not broken.
Are there things in your life that don’t serve you anymore? I am sure. You can let them go.

Letting go can be so liberating.
Letting go can be so scary.
Letting go might mean you will cry for days.
Letting go might mean that you are bubbling up with creative energy.

It’s ok. None of the above scenarios are better or worse. Because any negative feelings assosiated with letting go, will pass.
Holding on is what causes trouble.

As a coach I support you in letting go and keeping perspective.
Let go of the things that don’t serve you. It opens up space to reconnect with your true self. Let go and evolve in unforeseen ways.

I am here to fully support you along the way.
Contact me for an introductory session.

You don’t need to work hard, make compromises or suffer to get what you want – I am here to offer you tools and techniques, so you can achieve your goals & wishes with ease.

Yet, I don’t believe in quick fixes.

I invite you to take your time, explore new paths, fail at some & let go of things along the way. I invite you to truly evolve as a whole person.

I encourage you to stay focused on what you want, with a playful openness to new possibilites. I’m here to remind you that things are unfolding in your favor even if it does not seem like that in every second of the process.

There is no goal we achieve and then we stop wishing for something else. As you grow, new ideas and desires come up. You are supposed to want more. We constantly evolve.

I am here to fully support you on the way,

Contact me for an introductory session.

I offer individual coaching sessions by Skype or Telephone.
Don’t worry, as a travelling coach I have got the time zone thing figured out and know we can make coaching happen, no matter where in the world you are right now.

And of course you can choose the most convenient way for you, whether thats meeting on skype or me calling you on your phone.

A session is one hour long.
Most people start with weekly sessions and eventually switch to 1-2 times a month.
We will check individually, what frequency would be best, to realize your goals. The only commitment you make is to yourself. Some people are all set after 1-3 sessions, some people have enjoyed my coaching for several years, with different intervalls.
You can book your sessions directly on my online calendar. It’s easy and you don’t need to wait or send emails back and forth to confirm a session. If none of the offered times work for you, simply email me a suggestion.

Coaching for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex individuals & their loved ones.

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First Session

  • 60 min
  • so much more
  • than an Intro.


  • 60 min
  • Coaching
  • awesomeness


The first coaching session is offered at the introductory price of 45 € (≈ 50 US$)

after that you pay 90 € (≈ 95 US$) per session.

It’s my passion to see people thrive, and I am honored to be a part of it.

From the start, I have had some slots to work with people at a reduced rate. So if you want to work with me yet my prices are not in your current budget, let me know why you believe I could be the right coach for you. Let’s have a intro session, so you can actually be sure. And I am happy to offer a rate that works for you.


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If you can’t make an appointment, please give me a 48 hour notice to rescedule.

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Joy Zalzala-Soyka - Coaching

  1. The terms and conditions regulate the contractual relationship between Joy Zalzala-Soyka and the client. These terms and conditions are accepted by the client by booking a service and are valid for the entire duration of the coaching.
  2. Coaching is not a Therapy in a curative sense. The services offered on this site are not ment to diagnose, treat or cure illnesses. Clients are responsible for themselves, before, during and after the coaching. Clients should always consult a doctor, before making decisions regarding their health. Clients can not claim damages, a reduction or a refund of paid services.
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  9. The law of the Federal Republic of Germany applies to the coaching business.
  10. The place of jurisdiction is Berlin, Germany.