Let’s get personal.

As a coach I help my clients figure out what to do about their relationships. Because for most people relationships are complicated. For a while I thought I should call myself a break-up coach, because I have helped many through their times of break-up.
Yet what I also do is help people imagine what an awesome relationship could look like for them.

This is different for everyone.

Exclusive romantic couple, polyamorous, platonic relationships, families of choice, … It is fair to say that I am very open to different forms of relationships and quite non-judgemental, when it comes to living your personal version of awesome relationships.

But as I said, let’s get personal. My wife and I have been together for 12 years now and we have two kids 8 & 6 years old. While I have 10 years of experience as a relationship coach and counsellor, there are a lot of things I am personally still figuring out about living in a good relationship, being a good partner and mom while staying connected to myself. At the same time there are things I know certainly don’t work for me (or for others in that matter), and I have learned some valuable lessons on why my relationship with Joanna was able to thrive the way it did.

In celebration of our 10 year anniversary in 2017, I created an email series with stories that give you personal insights into everything relationship from my life with Joanna, and from my roughly ten years of experience as a coach and counselor on relationship issues.

Whether you are getting over a break-up, are madly in love, stuck in the daily grind or happily single, I share these stories with you to make you laugh, inspire some new thoughts and give you an insight into how a queer relationship coach rocks her own relationship.

Click on the link below to sign up for this free Email Series.
Let’s just say it starts with “I just wanted was an uncomplicated affair“, and takes you on a journey of connection vs. codependency, letting go, starting a rainbow family and travelling the world together.

click here for the free email series

Joy Zalzala-Soyka – I am a Law of Attraction coach and a multicultural, lesbian mom. I work across Europe and North America, offering you personal sessions over the phone, and books & articles here on

Get in touch with me today and let me know what’s on your mind.